brainy, zany, witty and wise sensualist with an adventurous spirit. sapiosexuality is a huge turn on..... Gentlemen, PLEASE, don't send me your photo with a note saying something akin to "here's a photo of me, send me one of you?" I don't provide quid pro quo photos simply because someone sends me a photo with the expectation of reciprocal photo exchange. Even if it's not your intention, it feels like a gambit or ploy rather than an authentic exchange. I will share my image when i feel ready to do so, or not, but won't be guilted into it because now i have one of you, and i have to level the playing field by sending one back. Likewise, if you've sent me 10 emails or some other large number and i haven't responded, please don't keep emailing me asking me if i've read the ones you've already sent. If i didn't respond to the first 9, there's nothing magical about the 10th that's going to make me respond.

My Ideal Person attracted to creative, cerebral, playful, sensual types who appreciate nuance and subtlety and know when civilized and gentlemanly is called for, and when it's time for something more primal and feral....