I'm a down to earth guy new to Bremerton and the state of Washington. Looking for new experiences with a down to earth lady.

My Ideal Person In terms of my ideal lady:

I'd like to meet a single lady without the kids at home anymore. I am a kid at heart, I've never had kids, but raised three great kids, have 7 grandkids (there just not mine), but don't want kids in my future moving forward though. I'd like to be friends first, someone to hang out with in a monogamous relationship without the pressure of marriage having to loom in the foreground. Actually, I was never one to marry in the past and don't see it in my future but one never knows. I am a non smoker and you must be as well. I don't drink anymore, my choice.

Enjoying being single for the first time in years and its nice to only have to answer to myself. I love waking up, packing the jeep and heading for an adventure. However, having a partner in crime to hang out with to do it sounds wonderful too.

I'm looking for a sidekick. Someone to hike, camp, kayak, cook, cuddle, watch movies with. I'm conservative (fiscally but socially liberal), patriotic, a veteran, university grad, credentialed, a world traveler, 23 countries and counting, and 36 states. I really wanna go to DC-wanna come with? I love God, have faith deeply, but don't attend worship. When I chat with God, I go to the forest and tell him my thoughts on our terms not an organized religions.

It would be wonderful to meet a gal with similar interests as myself as well as one to help me create new memories with. I love picnics at the beach or park, BBQ's in the backyard and car rides. I enjoy exploring state and national parks, forests and historical sites. I think over night trips to say Seattle, Portland, Victoria or Vancouver British Columbia would be wonderful. I also enjoy relaxing at home, love working around the home, reading, cooking and television (have a few series I just can't stop watching). I would enjoy going out for a dress up dinner then to a concert or play. Looking for a gal to enjoy fun experiences with. I enjoy a good sense of humor and I am trying to take life less serious the older I get. I am a chatter box with a very cynical sense of humor.

I enjoy a woman with confidence, a sense of style, who takes pride in her appearance, her health and her hygiene. Also who is intelligent and has an idea of what is going on in the world around her. A self supporting independent woman I can call my equal.

I spent my late twenties, thirties and early forties working like a dog and watching the world pass me by. I want to enjoy the things I missed. Like going to a fair, flea market, farmers market or town festival.

I'm normal, average, light hearted, not rich, truly single, made mistakes but who has not. Life can be challenging, I had a DUI 8 yrs ago, but that's it. I'm not tech savvy and I tell it like it is, cause I'm to old and stuck in my ways to bullshit anymore. I'm who I am, take it or leave it. I'd love to meet if you have the courage to take a leap of faith.

My carefree lifestyle, patriotism to my country and loyalty to my few friends and family are how I define myself. I've loved and lost. I'm a member of the Veterans of Foreign Wars, saw my mother take her last breath, lost great friends along my journey. I'm just a student of life and want to learn and experience more. No matter what. I'm glad that although I went through a twenty year split I can still consider my ex one of my best friends. I'm glad for that, for having and fostering a healthy relationship for years and beyond. Sometimes in life things aren't meant to be, but I'm glad we parted on good terms. This time around, the truth is on the table. I'm looking for a more adventurous life in terms of the bedroom and a girl who would like to take that journey with me. Don't be shy if your older than me, my ex was 9 years my senior and we got along great together. I don't like and will not accept drama in my life. Leave your baggage at the door and lets forget the past and create new memories together, laugh at new things and fulfill the goals we never got around to achieving.

I love to be romantic just not gushy. Holding hands is wonderful but I think trying to swallow your tongue in public lacks taste, no pun intended. Behind closed doors I am open to anything and like a woman who doesn't need the light turned off because she is shy. A girl who understands sex is about pleasure and communicating tossed with a heap of raw passion and erotic bliss.

So, I know that was a long winded speal about my ideal person, but those are my thoughts, wants, desires and hopes. At least I was honest. I hope your out there, I'm dying to meet you. "EVERY DAY IS A NEW OPPORTUNITY TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE ". Looking forward to meeting you.

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