I’m looking for a LTR with that special and rare mate who will be a compatible companion, someone with similar interests and attitudes. While physical or perality chemistry is important, attitudes and interests are also key. I love to be touched and to touch, namely be physically affectionate both giving and receiving, as a frequent aspect of our natural communication set. Sensuality is important. It must be a natural part of you. You should be conversational and openly honest about feelings and interests and curiosities, in a non-judgmental and analytical way. You must be emotionally secure, and emotionally stable. You must be non-religious or at least not seriously religious. You must be politically and socially liberal, sexually open minded and uninhibited, engaging and open to occasional erotic sexual play and exploration, bondage play, role playing, mild sm, trying out interesting sex toys shown in the catalogs, etc. You must understand love, namely how to love and how to be loved, and understand the difference between sex and love. Love is love and sex is sex—they are not the same. You must enjoy occasionally going to clothing optional nude resorts (beaches) , local swing clubs, or swing resorts like Hedonism in the Caribbean, and occasionally enjoy having sex . For example, I would love to club like twice a month to dance with you in risqué sexy lingerie, see-through or exposed topless, to socialize. I was not born with the jealous gene, but rather the anti-jealous gene. I am more of a lover than a fucker. I need someone who, if not also like that, at least understands it, and can accept and indulge it in me and what I need from my mate. I enjoy the pleasures of the body, toy play, and giving oral more than just fucking or getting sucked off. I love the male body, all aspects of it. You must enjoy also being at home, cuddling in the evening, kissing, watching TV or reading in the evenings, going out occasionally to theater, gardening and flowers in the back yard, and eating good food in or out. You must have good hygiene, be organized, and conscientious about time (punctual). I don’t care what your occupation is or was, whether none, stripper, barista, financial analyst, or research chemist.It is compatibility of attitudes, peralities, and interests that matter. Other things I love: I love music and listen to it a lot. I enjoy some sci-fi, I travel a lot and enjoy seeing the world :museums, cultural events, art, and historical and natural outdoor sites. My athletic days are over. I don’t do sports activities any more, other than day hikes. I do occasionally enjoy watching sports, but not a lot. I do not have a temper and cannot deal with someone who does. I almost never get angry, and cannot deal with anger or violent people. I deal with issues as a rationalist lover who analyzes and discusses seeking understanding. I do work a lot, but it is very flexible in hours and time usage. When I am not working I love my time to be with my companion. While I am politically and socially liberal and uninhibited, I am fiscally/financially conservative with money, i.e. not lavish or garish. You must be thrifty and prudent with money. I have few hobbies other than gardening, travel, eating out, work (yes work is a hobby), and my mate—spending time together in conversations, doing mundane things together, and also occasionally indulging in erotic sexual exploration (which I guess is my only vice!). So I guess I’m a real kind of woman.

My Ideal Person For me relationship is about trust, chemistry and understanding. When the two people love each other I know that all the difficulties vanish,When you really love someone, age, distance, height and weight are just numbers ...I believe if u love someone you should always be there for them in good and bad times and be ready to make heaven for them on earth. If u have a bit of that then you're my catch